100 Ways and 100 Days To Love Your Spouse

Day 13-  Focus on what he’s doing right, instead of focusing so often on the negatives. There are so many things that my husband does right, we’d be here all day if I were to attempt to list them. J  But, it does take effort sometimes to think of those things.  And, usually, it has NOTHING at all to do with him.  Tonight, compliment him on a job well done or thank him for helping with the dishes, the clothes or the kids.  You’d be surprised how far that goes with him.  I have found when Darrell feels appreciated, it’s a lot easier for him to receive…ahem….criticism.  And, he begins to take initiative on helping out instead of having to be asked to help out.  J

Tylar & I at a MCHS Bulldog game!