JEALOUSY SERIES, DAY 2:

IS JEALOUSY NATURAL?

 

Is Jealousy Natural?

 In relationships where feelings of jealousy are mild and occasional, it reminds the couple not to take each other for granted. It can encourage couples to appreciate each other and make a conscious effort to make sure the other person feels valued ... Jealousy heightens emotions, making love feel stronger and sex more passionate. In small, manageable doses, jealousy can be a positive force in a relationship. But when it's intense or irrational, the story is very different ... Occasional jealousy is natural and can keep a relationship alive, but when it becomes intense or irrational it can seriously damage a relationship.

Darrell & I have jealous “streaks” on occasion.  It’s true that it does remind me how special I am to him.  I, also, have jealous “spurts”.   It is natural when it’s in small doses & not extreme.  Don’t feel bad if you have jealous tendencies.  Express it to your significant other, discuss it & move on.  Do not let it fester and blow up in your face!  Don’t let it become too serious before you address it.  At the same time, don’t let it be irrational or unwarranted.  That will just drive a wedge between the two of you.

Thanks for reading today’s question.  Leave any comments or questions below!  Tomorrow’s question:  What do jealous people feel?