Not so sure what your Love Language is? That’s okay, I didn’t know for the longest time. I mean, I suspected, but I wasn’t entirely sure. If you’re in the same boat as me, or if perhaps you can’t decide between two (or three), a quiz might be the right next step for you!
Below is a quiz adapted from Gary Chapman’s book, “The Five Love Languages.” It is designed to help you to understand the in which you best receive (and give) love.
The Love Language Quiz consists of 30 pairs of statements. Choose ONE statement in each pair - the one that best represents your desire. Keep track of your answers: write down the letter of each statement you choose. (Make sure you’re only choosing one!)
The Love Language Quiz:
1. | I like to receive love notes from my husband. I like to be hugged by my husband. | A E |
2. | I like to spend one-to-one time with my husband. I feel loved when my husband gives practical help to me. | B D |
3. | I like it when my husband give me gifts. I like leisurely visits and long trips with my husband. | C B |
4. | I feel loved when my husband does things to help me. I feel loved when my husband touches me. | D E |
5. | I feel loved when my husband puts his arm around me. I feel loved when my husband surprises me with a gift. | E C |
6. | I like to go almost anywhere with my husband. I like to hold hands with my husband. | B E |
7. | Visible symbols of love (gifts) are very important to me. I feel loved when my husband tells me he loves me. | C A |
8. | I like to sit close to my husband. I like for my husband to tell me I am attractive. | E A |
9. | I like to spend time with my husband. I like to receive little gifts from my husband. | B C |
10. | Words of acceptance, especially from my husband, are important to me. I know my husband loves me when he helps me. | A D |
11. | I like being together and doing things with my husband. I like it when my husband speaks kind words to me. | B A |
12. | What my husband does affects me more than what he says. Hugs make me feel connected to and valued by my husband. | D E |
13. | I value praise from my husband. Small, meaningful gifts from my husband shows me how much he cares. | A C |
14. | I feel close to my husband when we are talking or doing something together. I feel closer to my husband when he touches me often. | B E |
15. | I like for my husband to compliment my achievements. I know my husband loves me when he helps me with something he hates. | A D |
16. | I like to be touched as my husband walks by. I like it when my husband shows genuine interest in what I am saying. | E B |
17. | I feel loved when my husband helps me with jobs or projects. I really enjoy receiving gifts from my husband. | D C |
18. | I like for my husband to compliment my appearance. I feel loved when my husband takes time to understand my feelings. | A B |
19. | I feel secure when my husband is touching me. When my husband runs errands for me, it makes me feel loved. | E D |
20. | I appreciate the many things that my husband does for me. I like the thoughtful gifts that my husband makes for me. | D C |
21. | I really enjoy the feeling I get when my husband gives me undivided attention. I really enjoy the feeling I get when my husband cleans the house for me. | B D |
22. | I feel loved when my husband celebrates my birthday with a gift. I feel loved when my husband tells me how important I am to him. | C A |
23. | I know my husband is thinking of me when he gives me a gift. I feel loved when my husband helps with my chores. | C D |
24. | I appreciate it when my husband listens patiently and doesn’t interrupt me. I never get tired of receiving gifts from my husband. | B C |
25. | I like knowing my husband is concerned enough to help with my daily tasks. I enjoy taking trips with my husband, no matter where we go. | D B |
26. | I enjoy kissing & cuddling with my husband. I enjoy surprise gifts from my husband. | E C |
27. | My husband’s encouraging words give me confidence. I like to watch movies with my husband. | A B |
28. | Gifts from my husband are always special to me. I love it when my husband can’t keep his hands off me. | C E |
29. | I feel loved when my husband enthusiastically helps me despite being busy. I feel loved when my husband tells me how much I am appreciated. | D A |
30. | I love hugging and kissing my husband after we’ve been apart for a while. I love hearing my husband tell me that he missed me. | E A |
Now that you’re finished, count the number of times you wrote down each letter. One of them should seem more dominant than the others. That one will be your love language!!
Mostly A’s: Words of Affirmation
Mostly B’s: Quality Time
Mostly C’s: Receiving Gifts
Mostly D’s: Acts of Service
Mostly E’s: Physical Touch
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